Today was just about like any other weekday over the past year or so. I put in some miles. I completed what needed to be done at work. I'd like to think I followed through on what I said I'd accomplish, and I tried a new sandwich in the work cafeteria since my routine sandwich was sold out.
Even the photo of the Barry this morning very closely resembles what it looked like yesterday.
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Anacostia Morning with USS Barry |
We're coming up on the tick of the clock that will mark the end of calendar year 2015 and the beginning of calendar year 2016. There will be some talk of new beginnings and New Year resolutions. Gym membership will spike, and hundreds of thousands (if not millions) of people will stay up till midnight local time to celebrate the passing of a an "old" year and the start of a new one.
I'm happy to report that I finding it vanishingly unlikely that I'll be an active participant in any of that activity. I've learned, albeit far too tardily, that none of those things seem to relate to how life actually works. I don't have to promise to make a new me in the new year because for an entire calendar year now I've been incrementally pursuing the mastery of the things that I find fulfilling and those things that are most important to me.
Life really is a series of very small events that either lead to incremental improvement or incremental devolution. The things that are most important are not measured in a time scale associated with years or months, or even weeks. Doing the next right thing on a day for day basis is how things really get done. When I'm lucky, I can narrow my focus to the moment or the second or the blink of an eye that is happening "right now."
I finally heard this lesson and started taking it onboard about three years ago. Walking has helped me gather the evidence to turn a small amount of faith in this process into a solid belief. Daily practice has allowed me to hone the ability to try to live every day in this manner.
Today marked the beginning and end of important milestones in my life, but those milestones look an awful lot like the milestones from yesterday. It was another great day, and with any manner of good luck tomorrow will be that way as well.
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