This week proved itself a little hectic. Without going into too many details, I'll say that in the last six days I've helped manage the schedule of approximately two hundred folks in a pretty fluid high technology test environment, been isolated from email and internet connectivity for forty eight hours, gone to work at 0230 in the morning, and put in about eighty hours in "the office."
With the appearance of the first relatively calm day following that gauntlet, my thoughts turned to ways that I found useful in decompressing a bit from that high intensity time.
1. Catch the sunrise. Awakening before the crack of dawn ought to come with some advantages. In addition to pretty good compensation (which never really makes up for lost sleep, by the way), the sun will make an appearance and you should probably consider taking in the sights for a bit.
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Gulf of Mexico Sunrise |
Up before dawn, there were a series of things that called to be dealt with, but when I stepped outside for a moment, this is the vista that awaited. I stood in the moment and reveled in the perfection. The tone had been set for appreciating the other perfect (though less scenic) moments that would follow.
2. Meditate. When you sit at a picnic table and stare at a point in space for twelve minutes (or so) as the frantic actions unfold around your reverie, a co-worker might eventually come up to you, tap you on the shoulder, and ask if you're alright. When they do, you might consider sharing with them the benefits of mindful meditation including but not limited to clearer conscious thought, a heightened sense of serenity, and lower blood pressure. They might show some interest, or they might leave you alone going forward. Either way, this is a win-win from my perspective.
3. Don't catch the sunrise. There's something to be said for paying back some of that sleep debt you might have built up during the week. I'm staying at a hotel that's chose
Arianna Huffington as their ambassador for a good night's rest. The staff even left a handy list of her eight tips for a better sleep. A quick Google search reveals that she's authored five, eight, twelve, and ten tip lists for a better sleep so it seems to me that she takes the topic pretty seriously. The fact that four of the eight tips are part of my own daily practice is heartening.
4. Turn off the television. I have not watched any television nine days. I don't miss it a bit. In today's connected world it is all but impossible to get away from what passes for news and current events, so my knowledge of what the talking heads have been endlessly yammering about over the last nine days have not escaped my attention (unfortunately). Keeping the television off has lessened the volume of their hyperventilating to a background murmur, and I find that it's much easier to stay in the moment and appreciate the things that are happening within about a meter of my existence. I saw a lizard on the front quarter panel of a Ram Hemi Truck this afternoon. Apparently one also secured their position as a presidential candidate and another is likely to follow shortly.
5. Take a walk. I went to a park with a bluff overlooking the water today. It's one of my favorite haunts when I get a few hours of downtime in this neck of the woods. The weather was cool with a hint of warm humidity, the mosquitoes have not yet invaded in force, and I spent some quality time in the vicinity of some fellow travellers watching the world complete another revolution. It's just the kind of revolution that I can get behind.
6. Eat something new. I found myself hankering for something a little sweet, but I didn't quite know what I wanted. Fortunately, I stumbled across a little bakery that was new to me, and they had some fresh lemon scones. Never having tried them before, I knew before they crossed my tongue they were going to hit just the right balance of sweet and tart. I was not disappointed.
7. Say "Thank you" more often than usual. The bakery counterman asked me if he could help me, and since I didn't know what I was searching for I said, "I'm just poking around, but thanks for asking." This elicited a smile from him that brightene
d my day. The checkout girl with dark brown hair, hazel eyes, and a smattering of freckles beamed up as well when I thanked her for her help purchasing the scones. I don't know if saying "thank you" and meaning it brightened their day at all, but their smiles sure brightened mine.
8. Get rid of excess stuff, and if you can swing it, give it away that might help someone else.
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Minimalism - Day 9 - Alabama |
Some of this stuff went right in the trash. Let's face it, when you have two toothbrushes, it's time to part with the one that's worn out. Who needs more than one pair of nail clippers? When you drop a pair of work gloves in a toilet accidentally, you might want to think about tossing them in the bin. On a happier note, I returned
The Lobster Chronicles to the
Little Free Library that I borrowed it from about three weeks ago. It was a good read, and I recommend it to those who might be thinking of becoming a lobsterman (or woman) and are worried about the winters in Maine. The book didn't chase me away from that particular idea, although I might consider a summer lobster season in Maine followed by a winter season in the Caribbean. That book was joined in the little shed by
When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron. This book makes a compelling case for the argument that pain and uncertainty are harbingers of a person getting a little bit closer to the truth of their existence if you can muster the courage to lean into the discomfort. It was compelling, and I recommend taking a gander.
9. Journal. It's what I do now, and I find that putting thoughts into typeface gets them out of my head where they're easier to manage.
10. Catch the sunset.
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Sunset at The Bluffs - Fairhope, AL |
It's been a long day, even if you chose not to catch the sunrise, and the revolution is over for now. Take a moment and feel the warm wind come off the bay. Watch the blues turn to greens and the hot yellow melt into orange and red.
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Seahorse Sunset - Fairhope, AL |
Know that you've done your best, and, whatever the outcome if you're like me at all, you'll be looking forward to the hopeful newness of another day tomorrow.